Valentine’s Day has come and gone. The chocolates have finished, some of you have even stopped texting “good morning my love” like your phone lost signal and the flowers have dried up(that’s if you got one, lol). But love no suppose be one-day event! If you truly care about your partner, the romance should not expire on February 14th like promo goods. Love needs maintenance, like generator wey you no wan make e knock engine.
So, how do you keep the spark alive? Don’t fret! i’m here to guide you on what to do.
1. Random Acts of Love – No Be Only Birthday and Valentine You Go Show Love
One of the biggest mistakes couples make is waiting for a “special occasion” to show love. Surprise your partner randomly! Buy their favorite snack when visiting, send a cute text in the middle of the day, or plan an unexpected date night. It doesn’t need to be expensive, it’s just about the effort.
2. Communication – “How Was Your Day?” No Be Small Talk, E Matter
You see that small “how was your day?” text? It means a lot when you actually listen and care. Ask your partner about their dreams, their stress, even if NEPA took light in their area. Emotional connection grows when you make effort to genuinely be interested in their daily life.
3. Keep the Playfulness Alive – No Dey Serious Everytime
Abeg, who says love must be serious 24/7? Play together! Crack jokes, send funny memes, play games, even gist about random things. Relationship wey no get laughter go dry like Jollof rice wey water no touch.
4. Date Nights – No Wait Till Next Valentine
Romantic dates should not be a once-in-a-year event. Whether it is fancy restaurant or suya and chilled Zobo by the roadside, make out time for each other. Even Netflix-and-chill counts, as long as you enjoy each other’s company.
5. Small Gestures Matter – E No Need to Be Loud
Love no suppose be all about big, dramatic gifts. A simple “I miss you” message, helping out with chores, or just holding hands when walking together fit make serious difference. Na the small-small things dey build strong love.
6. Keep the “Talking Stage” Energy
Remember when you first started dating? The excitement, the long conversations, the eagerness to impress? Try to keep that energy alive. Keep making effort, don’t let comfort zone turn your relationship to “we move” level.
7. Respect and Appreciation – “Thank You” No Dey Cost Money
Nothing kills romance faster than feeling unappreciated. Say “thank you” for even the little things, appreciate your partner’s efforts, and always show respect. Nobody likes to feel taken for granted.
8. Keep Things Spicy – No Let Relationship Dull Like Repeated Ankara Style
Switch things up! Try new activities together, travel, explore new hobbies, even spice up the romantic side of things if you know, you know. Keep your relationship fresh and exciting.
At the end of the day, love is more than February 14th. If you only celebrate your partner once a year, my dear, that one na performance, no be love. Real love shows up every day, in big and small ways. So, if you really want that “couple goals” relationship, keep putting in the effort beyond Valentine’s.
Love no be by one-day hype, na by consistent action. Make sure your partner still dey feel loved every single day!
Happy “Post-Valentine’s” loving!
